{"id":10399,"date":"2020-02-25T05:34:08","date_gmt":"2020-02-25T05:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/?p=10399"},"modified":"2020-02-25T05:34:09","modified_gmt":"2020-02-25T05:34:09","slug":"on-yargi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/on-yargi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6N YARGI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Merhaba arkada\u015flar.Bug\u00fcn sizlere \u00f6n yarg\u0131n\u0131n nedenlerini ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlataca\u011f\u0131m.Sizinde bildi\u011finiz gibi b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar(b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar diyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 davranmayan kimse yok.Herkes bir kerede olsa \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 davranm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.)yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlara veya yak\u0131nlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 davran\u0131yor.\u00d6rne\u011fin;yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z biri hakk\u0131nda ileri geri konu\u015fuyorsunuz ve o insan\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinizden utan\u0131yorsunuz.O ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda bilip bilmeden arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za da baz\u0131 \u015feyler anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zda sizden uzakla\u015fabilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Yak\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z olan biri (arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z,karde\u015finiz vb.)gelip size bir \u015feyi yapmak istedi\u011fini veya yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.Bunun i\u00e7in de sizden destek ve yard\u0131m istiyor.Ama siz \u00b4\u00b4yapamazs\u0131n,sen mi? hahaha ,sen kim bunu yapmak kim\u00b4\u00b4 gibi s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz.Ve \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 davranm\u0131\u015f oluyorsunuz.B\u00f6yle yapman\u0131z yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kalbini k\u0131rman\u0131za yol a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer \u00f6n yarg\u0131lar davran\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ise, art\u0131k bunun ad\u0131 d\u0131\u015flamad\u0131r. Yani \u00f6nyarg\u0131 bir tutum, d\u0131\u015flama ise bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6nyarg\u0131 bazen belli gerek\u00e7elere ve \u00f6n bilgilere dayansa da, hakl\u0131 gerek\u00e7esi olmadan di\u011ferlerinin k\u00f6t\u00fc oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, \u00f6nyarg\u0131n\u0131n nefret boyutudur. \u00d6n yarg\u0131 bir taraf tutma bi\u00e7imidir. Sak\u0131z gibidir, bir kez bula\u015ft\u0131 m\u0131 uzar gider, yap\u0131\u015f\u0131r kal\u0131r ve \u00e7ok \u015fi\u015ferse surat\u0131n\u0131za patlar. Allport \u201cerken yarg\u0131lar yeni bilgilerle y\u00fczle\u015fince de\u011fi\u015fmiyorsa \u00f6nyarg\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f demektir\u201d der.\u00a0Yeme\u011fin tad\u0131na bakmadan tuz atan adam \u00f6nyarg\u0131n\u0131n ordusuna kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir neferdir.<\/p>\n<p>Neden b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za gelecek olursak bunun nedeni;insanlara g\u00fcvenmemek,g\u00fcvenmek istememek veya g\u00fcvenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamak.<\/p>\n<p>Siz siz olun kimseye kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 olmay\u0131n.Emin olun sizin b\u00f6yle davranman\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizden uzakla\u015fmas\u0131na ve insanlar\u0131n sizi sevmemesine neden olur.<span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u015eunu asla unutmay\u0131n.En adaletsiz yarg\u0131 \u00f6n yarg\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 600;\"><i>NOT:<span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u00d6n yarg\u0131;bir ki\u015fi ya da olaya ili\u015fki yeterli bir bilgi edinmeden veya emin olmadan,pe\u015fin bir karara varmakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div style='text-align:left' class='yasr-auto-insert-visitor'><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":534,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gezi"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":true,"span_bottom":"<div class='yasr-small-block-bold'><span class='yasr-visitor-votes-must-sign-in'>You must sign in to vote<\/span><\/div>"},"number_of_votes":1,"sum_votes":5},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/534"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10399\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}