{"id":9779,"date":"2020-01-22T08:32:34","date_gmt":"2020-01-22T08:32:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/?p=9779"},"modified":"2020-01-22T08:32:35","modified_gmt":"2020-01-22T08:32:35","slug":"yalnizlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cocukyazarlarkutuphanesi.com\/wps\/yalnizlik\/","title":{"rendered":"YALNIZLIK."},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Merhaba bug\u00fcn size yine hikaye yada \u015fiir tarz\u0131 bir yaz\u0131 yazamayaca\u011f\u0131m.Bu yaz\u0131mda yine konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z.Bu y\u00fczden ilk c\u00fcmlelerimi k\u0131sa tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc konu\u015facaklar\u0131m\u0131z bunlardan \u00e7ok daha uzun.Konumuza yava\u015ftan ge\u00e7elim bence.Konumuz yaln\u0131zl\u0131k kendimizle yaln\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimiz bize olanlar yada ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z.Asl\u0131na bak\u0131l\u0131rsa her \u015feyin akl\u0131m\u0131zdan ge\u00e7ti\u011fi durumdur yaln\u0131zl\u0131k.O an kendimizi bazen ger\u00e7ekten buluruz.Bazen de hi\u00e7 bulamaz koskocaman siyah bir bo\u015flukta buluruz.Ben asl\u0131nda yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 iki yere ay\u0131r\u0131yorum.Birinde kendi iste\u011fimizle yan\u0131m\u0131zda kimse olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda birilerinin i\u015fi falan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yaln\u0131zl\u0131k.Biride ger\u00e7ekten hi\u00e7 bir zaman tamir edilemeyecek bizi ger\u00e7ekten can\u0131m\u0131zdan b\u0131kt\u0131ran yaln\u0131zl\u0131k.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Bence bu iki yaln\u0131z t\u00fcr\u00fcnde de \u00e7ok ama \u00e7ok fazla fark var.Ger\u00e7ek yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tam olarak anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman her \u015feyi bir kenara b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fumuz zamand\u0131r.Bu y\u00fczden e\u011fer sizde bunu anlamak istiyorsan\u0131z.Ger\u00e7ekten her \u015feyi bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131n ve sadece kendinizle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131n.\u015eimdi en son dedi\u011fim gibi yaln\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bazen ger\u00e7ekten kendimizi tamam\u0131yla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimize ve duygular\u0131m\u0131za b\u0131rak\u0131r\u0131z.\u015euan i\u00e7inizden &#8220;Ben b\u0131rakm\u0131yorum&#8221;dedi\u011finizi duydum.Ve size sadece kendinizi kand\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini tavsiye ediyorum.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gitti\u011finiz o bamba\u015fka d\u00fcnyada kendinizi kaybedebilirsiniz.Ve bu \u015fekilde mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da bu sizin elinizde de\u011fil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>O an genellikle k\u00f6t\u00fc olaylara gitme ihtimaliniz \u00e7ok fazlad\u0131r.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan o zaman asl\u0131nda \u00e7evredekilerinin ona sadece yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu\u011funu anl\u0131yor.Ve bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceniz size en fazla huzursuzlu\u011fu ya\u015fatan yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da en fazla anlatan ve ya\u015fatan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncedir.Ger\u00e7ekten oturup bazen yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsek kendimize asl\u0131nda en fazla yard\u0131m edebilece\u011fimiz zamand\u0131r.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc en derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere dald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman yaln\u0131z oldu\u011fumuz zamand\u0131r.Ve en iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebildi\u011fimiz zaman da yaln\u0131z oldu\u011fumuz zamand\u0131r.Bu y\u00fczden yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za dert de\u011fil de bazen de derman olmay\u0131 ba\u015farand\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style='text-align:left' 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